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One for the team

Across the world the search continues for solutions to the top ranking sex problem facing women – loss of desire. Drug companies are seeking a pink Viagra, a drug to boost female libido. The stakes are high with some surveys suggesting over half of all women experience fading of desire in long-term relationships. Marital distress […]

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Juicy Tomatoes

Joan Sewell is an American woman who wrote a funny book called “I’d Rather Eat Chocolate: Learning to love My Low Libido.” In an interview about the book, Sewell grumbled about her low sex drive and mentioned a conversation with a woman who described herself as a juicy tomato. “If you were a vegetable, what […]

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Turn off the chatter

Turn off the chatter

There’s a great video clip featuring a smiling woman in bed. All that’s visible is her face and the occasional movement beneath the sheets. She starts off blissfully happy… “Hmm, that feels good..Wait, wait, oh yes, that’s so good.” But then thoughts start to intrude: “Shit, he’s getting bored.” And then, “Oh no, don’t go […]

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Stop begging for sex

Just back from speaking on a P&O cruise – which was great fun. The only problem was they scheduled my talk on online dating at the same time as the big weekend rugby match. Not surprising that we lost most of the men but the largely female audience seemed to lap it up. It was […]

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